I totally hear you, Dana. Life can really throw some unexpected curveballs (or a straight-up punch in the face). It's hard sometimes to accept that fundamentally you're really not in control. I too have just learned to sigh, shrug my shoulders, and carry on while being gentle with myself. I'm glad no one suffered any hot oil burns!! Thanks so much for sharing. :-)
Thankfully, the oil wasn't hot. It would have been a very different share if that had been the case. I think we get better at being kind to ourselves as we get older. Or maybe we don't give a shit as much? Who knows, but I find it healthier to sigh and move on than to wind myself up.
I totally hear you, Dana. Life can really throw some unexpected curveballs (or a straight-up punch in the face). It's hard sometimes to accept that fundamentally you're really not in control. I too have just learned to sigh, shrug my shoulders, and carry on while being gentle with myself. I'm glad no one suffered any hot oil burns!! Thanks so much for sharing. :-)
Thankfully, the oil wasn't hot. It would have been a very different share if that had been the case. I think we get better at being kind to ourselves as we get older. Or maybe we don't give a shit as much? Who knows, but I find it healthier to sigh and move on than to wind myself up.